Reject the opposites

This world is comprised of many elements and among those elements, living beings are the one who gives the feeling of liveliness in the world. These living beings always try to achieve something in their lives and make it best. I would like to share some opinions to you about achieving good life here.

 First of all , we all know that life is made up many things which contains emotions, attachments, trust, success and many more things. If we can handle all these things properly then we wont have any issue in making the life peaceful and healthy. My funda for this is,we have to reject the opposites related to all these things. As like say for "Friend" the opposite is "Enemy". Similarly there are opposites for other things as :  

1. Love vs Hate - 

Learn to love your life by loving all the things connected to it. No matter you are small or big, you are poor or rich, you will live your own life and lead the same. No matter people around you behaves in weird way but you shouldn't stop loving and caring for them. As opposite of love is hate, once you put the seed of hate in your life, it will grow fast and you wont be able to control its roots once it grows deep in your life. And hate has many affects in life as it may detach people from your life and at one point you may be alone too. So always search for positive love and affection as it has the capability to find best out of worst or it can also heal a mental to normal. That strength the love has. 

2. Make Vs Break - 
  Always try to make new things in life. Making may include making new friends, relations, techniques, patterns in careers etc. Whatever you do, always make something because it never goes waste. Suppose today you made some stuff which doesn't have any meaning. But don't stop making it further as it will turn out into something good. You never know, it might be some good statue of clay, or some great code for excellent application or a best friend for a life. So make it in such a way that there is no one to break it. 

3. Confidence Vs Doubt - 

Whenever you decide particular goal in life, be confident about it. But also know that while increasing confidence level, you are clearing all the doubts. Because, doubts are positive errors or problems that might come. So clear the doubts and remove errors to gain more confidence and finally you will see yourself winning the race. 

4. Act Vs Reasoning - 

Now that you have planned something for your life, Act as per plan. You will come along many difficulties in way, you might also fail at one point but don't stop trying again. Just stick to the plan and work hard. Never try to give a reason to yourself for fail, because once you start reasoning, you will continue to give them for each point and this link will go on and you may lose your aim. So always Act as per plan. 

Along with these things you should be sincere, respectful in society, caring and silent. Also you should praise others and yourself for creating positive energy. You should find happiness by saying YES to the things around you. As it is well said by Paulo Coelho that  "When you say Yes to others, make sure you are not saying No to yourself". 

Live your life and enjoy the stuff.

Thank you! :)