Reject the opposites

This world is comprised of many elements and among those elements, living beings are the one who gives the feeling of liveliness in the world. These living beings always try to achieve something in their lives and make it best. I would like to share some opinions to you about achieving good life here.

 First of all , we all know that life is made up many things which contains emotions, attachments, trust, success and many more things. If we can handle all these things properly then we wont have any issue in making the life peaceful and healthy. My funda for this is,we have to reject the opposites related to all these things. As like say for "Friend" the opposite is "Enemy". Similarly there are opposites for other things as :  

1. Love vs Hate - 

Learn to love your life by loving all the things connected to it. No matter you are small or big, you are poor or rich, you will live your own life and lead the same. No matter people around you behaves in weird way but you shouldn't stop loving and caring for them. As opposite of love is hate, once you put the seed of hate in your life, it will grow fast and you wont be able to control its roots once it grows deep in your life. And hate has many affects in life as it may detach people from your life and at one point you may be alone too. So always search for positive love and affection as it has the capability to find best out of worst or it can also heal a mental to normal. That strength the love has. 

2. Make Vs Break - 
  Always try to make new things in life. Making may include making new friends, relations, techniques, patterns in careers etc. Whatever you do, always make something because it never goes waste. Suppose today you made some stuff which doesn't have any meaning. But don't stop making it further as it will turn out into something good. You never know, it might be some good statue of clay, or some great code for excellent application or a best friend for a life. So make it in such a way that there is no one to break it. 

3. Confidence Vs Doubt - 

Whenever you decide particular goal in life, be confident about it. But also know that while increasing confidence level, you are clearing all the doubts. Because, doubts are positive errors or problems that might come. So clear the doubts and remove errors to gain more confidence and finally you will see yourself winning the race. 

4. Act Vs Reasoning - 

Now that you have planned something for your life, Act as per plan. You will come along many difficulties in way, you might also fail at one point but don't stop trying again. Just stick to the plan and work hard. Never try to give a reason to yourself for fail, because once you start reasoning, you will continue to give them for each point and this link will go on and you may lose your aim. So always Act as per plan. 

Along with these things you should be sincere, respectful in society, caring and silent. Also you should praise others and yourself for creating positive energy. You should find happiness by saying YES to the things around you. As it is well said by Paulo Coelho that  "When you say Yes to others, make sure you are not saying No to yourself". 

Live your life and enjoy the stuff.

Thank you! :) 

Quotes by Steve Jobs

1.Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people   how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they   didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to   them after a while.

2.Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only   way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.   And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you   haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all   matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it.

3.Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to   avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are   already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

4.I think if you do something and it turns out pretty good, then you   should go do something else wonderful, not dwell on it for too long.   Just figure out what’s next.

5.If you don’t love something, you’re not going to go the extra mile,   work the extra weekend, challenge the status quo as much.

6.That’s been one of my mantras - focus and simplicity. Simple can be   harder than complex. You have to work hard to get your thinking   clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once   you get there, you can move mountains.

7.Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.   Don’t be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of   other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions   drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage   to follow your heart and intuition.

8.I’m convinced that about half of what separates the successful   entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.

9.Here’s to the crazy ones - the misfits, the rebels, the   troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see   things differently - they’re not fond of rules. You can quote them,   disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you   can’t do is ignore them because they change things. They push the   human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones,   we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that   they can change the world, are the ones who do.

10.Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've   ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because     almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear   of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the   face of death, leaving only what is truly important.

11.For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning   and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I   want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has   been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change 
  something.

12.Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me. Going   to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful, that's what   matters to me.

13.I’m as proud of many of the things we haven’t done as the things we   have done. Innovation is saying no to a thousand things.

14.Getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever   happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by   the lightness of being a beginner again. It freed me to enter one of   the most creative periods of my life.

15.If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right.